The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Pastor Enoch Adeboye, has urged Christian couples to place a high value on romance within their marriages, cautioning them against allowing spiritual obligations to overshadow their marital responsibilities.
The esteemed pastor emphasized that active participation in religious activities should not impede the intimacy shared between spouses.
In a message posted on his official X (formerly Twitter) account, Adeboye highlighted that romance is a vital component of a thriving Christian marriage.
“The fact that you are a Christian does not in any way take the romance out of your marriage,” he said.“ he said. “
Marriage is the only institution where romance and intimacy are allowed between a man and a woman.”
Addressing the tendency of some pastors to overlook their personal relationships, Adeboye encouraged Christian leaders to engage in romantic pursuits, such as going on dates with their partners.
“Some pastors hardly go on dates with their spouses because they consider such a romantic activity as a distraction from their focus on spiritual matters. Some of them don’t even play with their spouses anymore,” he noted.
Referencing biblical examples, Adeboye pointed to Isaac, a revered patriarch, who was depicted enjoying intimate moments with his wife, Rebecca.
“Isaac was an anointed man of God and a successful businessman, yet in Genesis 26:8, the Bible says he was being romantic with his wife,” he clarified.
He further advised couples to ensure their time together is enjoyable, stating, “Don’t become too rigid in your marriage; don’t have more fun elsewhere without your spouse. Make the times that you and your spouse spend together so much fun that you are always looking forward to seeing each other again.”
The octogenarian, who has been married to his wife Foluke for over fifty years, revealed that they continue to cultivate their affection through affectionate gestures, such as using pet names.
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